Sane Sex SEX

My penis is filled with blood, all its blood vessels being distended to their utmost capacity, till the organ becomes stout and hard, and several times its dormant size. In this condition it is able to penetrate utmost depths.

Under such conditions, I insert my penis into the widened and distended vaginal passage. Once together, a mutual back and forth, or partly in and out movement, of the organs is begun and carried on by me and milady, which action further enlarges the parts and raises them to a still higher degree of tension and excitement.

Note: It is supposed by some that this frictional movement of the parts develops an electrical current, which increases in tension as the act is continued; and that it is the mission of the pubic hair, which is a non-conductor, to confine these currents to the parts in contact.

The in-and-out motion is easily performed; and at the climax, the organs can be crowded together passionately, and still without hurting the woman.

A very frequent cause of married unsatisfaction is the fact of the difference of time that it takes for the husband and wife to come to the climax, the orgasm. As has been proved, the highest delight in the act comes when this climax is simultaneous, comes at exactly the same instant to both parties. But to bring this about is not easy in all cases.

As a rule, women are slower in reaching the orgasm than are men. And furthermore, after a man has passed the orgasm it is, in most cases, impossible for him to continue the act, right then and there, and bring the woman to the climax, if she has not yet arrived, from the fact that, with the expulsion of the semen, usually detumescence of the penis at once takes place, and the organ is incapable of exciting the woman when in this condition. And so, if the husband "goes off" first, there is no possibility of the wife's reaching the climax at that embrace. On the other hand, if the wife comes to the orgasm first, her vulva and vagina detumesce but little and that very slowly, so that it is perfectly possible for the husband to continue his action, and come to the climax, even if his partner has already "spent."

Footnote: I once knew a case where a husband and wife lived together to celebrate their golden wedding, and the wife never once experienced an orgasm, though the husband cohabited with her several times a month. The husband was "quick in action" and the wife somewhat slow, and they had never synchronated their time differences. The dear old lady died at ninety.

If the husband is in haste, if he does not wait for the wife to become ready to meet him; if he forces his large, hard penis into the vagina before either is fully ready for such union, it is perfectly easy to see that only disaster can result. The woman is hurt, sometimes most cruelly, and the man in reality gets only a beastly gratification from the act. Of all bad things in all the world, such manner of coition is the worst.

Now the thing to do, under such circumstances, is for the parties to "get together." And the way to do this is, first, to prolong the first part of the act, till the wife has not only caught up with, but is even ahead of her husband in the state of her passion. To bring about this condition, the husband should use every means to stimulate his wife's sex-nature and increase her desire for coition. Here are some things he can do, which will tend to produce such results:

Breasts. Nipples. To touch them is to directly excite all of her sex organs. If the husband will "play" with his wife's breasts, especially with her nipples, manipulating them with his fingers, or, better still, with his lips and tongue – at the same time, if he will stroke her vulva with his fingers, especially the clitoris, and if she will encourage him to do this, by holding her breast with one hand, shaking it about as her nipple is in her lover's lips; if, lying flat on her back, her husband at her right side, and with his left arm around her waist, she will spread her legs wide apart, thus opening the vulva to its utmost, and sway her hips, raising and lowering them betimes; and, since she has a free hand, if, with this, she will take her husband's penis with it and "play" with it as her lover plays with her vulva – if they will do this, the cases are rare in which passion will not grow in the wife to almost any desirable extent.

A French quote: On trouve aussi des célébrations dionysiaques qui pratiquaient collectivement ce genre d'excès, sous l'emprise de drogues et d'alcool, et aussi des prostitutions sacrées. Mot-clé:

A THOUSAND FOLD / LAVISH

LET LOVE RULE AND DIRECT

BANISH ALL SELFISHNESS

THE WIFE UTTERLY LOSE HERS

NOT CARRIED TO EXCESS

SUFFERS ALL NIGHT LONG

AND THEN / LEFT HER / LIKE

BE TEMPERATE, MANLY, WOMANLY

(THEY HAVE NO RIGHTS)

THE FIRST PART OF THE ACT IS NEGLECTED

HENCE THE NEED OF INSTRUCTIONS TO BOTH

ACTS / SHOULD / COMMON / MUTUALITY

Sane Sex Life and Sane Sex Living  (1919) by Harland William Long